Second, how do you criticize the children?

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1. Whispered: Parents should be lower than normal voice criticism of the child, "low and powerful" sound, will cause the child's attention, but also easy to make kids pay attention to listen to what you say, such a low voice of the "cold treatment mbt shoes sale" more often than yelled the effect better.
2. Silence: that once their children have done something wrong, always worried that parents would blame him, if, as he thought, but children have a "relief" feeling, committed themselves to criticism and disapproval of the fault also. On the contrary, if the parents remained silent, but rather the child's psychological tension, and feel "uncomfortable", and then reflect on his mistakes.
3. Hint: the child was at fault, if parents can inspire their children calmly, not directly criticize his mistakes, the child will quickly understand the intention of the parents, the parents are willing to accept criticism and education, and this also protects the child's self-esteem.
4. Boot: When the children got him into trouble were the parents of the blame often will blame to others, then call him a "If you are that person, how would you explain it? mbt shoes", Which will make children think: If to be anything else, what to say? This will cause most of the children found themselves at fault, and led him to reflect on their own will, to blame others for all the responsibility is wrong.
5. Timely: children are relatively poor sense of time, but also nature fun, attention and dispersion, just mistakes but then quickly forgotten. Therefore, parents criticized the child to strike while mbt the iron is hot, can not drag and drop, otherwise, should not achieve its educational role.